On
average, women achieve orgasm through intercourse 1
out of every 4 times. For men, it's 9 out of 10 times.
Between 40 and 50 million women in the United States
alone endure reduced sexual response.
What is an
orgasm?
The female orgasm is an emotional and physical experience
that
occurs during a “sexual response cycle”. For the female
in the moments leading up to an orgasm, her
body becomes increasingly excited. Breathing, heart
rate
and blood
pressure increases.
The
pupils of the eyes dilate; the lips of the mouth darken,
the nipples become erect, the clitoris swells, becomes
hard and exposed, (much like the aroused penis). With
this arousal comes increased excitement, the skin becomes
flushed and it
begins to sweat. In women, the labia, clitoris, vagina
and pelvic organs enlarge in very much the same way as
the aroused penis enlarges. For some women there is a
plateau of excitement which is held for several minutes
before
you are about to orgasm.
Female Orgasm is the point at which all the tension
is suddenly released in a series of involuntary and
pleasurable
muscular contractions that may be felt in the
vagina and/or uterus (some women do experience orgasms
without
contractions).
The female orgasm happens when excitement
seems to go over the edge -- a climax or crescendo
is reached which may last several seconds or longer.
During orgasm the body stiffens and the muscles contract.
Involuntary muscle contractions
and spasms may occur in various parts of the body,
including
your legs, stomach, arms, and back. The muscles
of the vagina relax and contract rapidly, as do
the
muscles of the uterus. The glands of the vagina
(Bartholin's glands) discharge a watery secretion,
which acts
to
lubricate the vagina. It is often said this female
ejaculation is the equivalent to the male
ejaculation.
What's The Difference Between Clitoral and Vaginal
Orgasms?
The difference between a "clitoral" and
a "vaginal" female orgasm is where
you are being stimulated to achieve orgasm, not
where
you feel the orgasm. This may clear up some of
the confusion around this common question. The
clitoris has a central role in elevating feelings
of sexual arousal. During sexual excitement,
the clitoris swells and changes position. The
blood vessels through the whole pelvic area also
swell, causing engorgement and creating a feeling
a fullness and sexual sensitivity. Your inner
vaginal lips swell and change shape. Your vagina
balloons upward, and your uterus shifts position
in your pelvis.
For some women, the outer third of their vagina
and the cervix are also very sensitive or even
more sensitive than the clitoris. When stimulated
during intercourse or other vaginal penetration,
these women do have intense orgasms. This would
be what is referred to as a vaginal orgasm --
without clitoral stimulation. (Sigmund Freud
made a pronouncement that the "mature" woman
has orgasms only when her vagina, but not her
clitoris, is stimulated). This of course, made
the man's penis central to a woman's sexual satisfaction.
Many sexual health experts still disagree about
any actual female orgasm ejaculation, although
you will find plenty of web sites that will want
to teach
you how to do this for a fee, here you can check
it out for free.
In reality, female orgasms are a very individual
experience and there is no one correct pattern
of sexual
response. Whatever feels wonderful to you, makes
you feel alive and happy, AND connected with
your partner is what matters.
What can be done to improve the female orgasm?
Whether your female orgasm is a vaginal
orgasm or through stimlation of the clitoris
female
viagra
products can help. Achieve Pleasure Gel goes
to work immediatly to help stimulate the clitoris.
It creates a feeling of warmth that gets the
juices flowing. Pleasure Pill viagra for women
helps engorge the genitals with blood and significantly
increases libido.
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